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#1 XxInColdBloodxX

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 12:39 AM

Yes, this has been a thought on my mind since the Durex(Dont get Durex, they blow(out(lol))) condom broke a week or so back, but i haven't really gave much thought to it.
She's on the pill?
She ran out a couple days before than.
She has been showing some signs latley, but upon further research, they can also come from lack of the pill... some of them.
Well a couple days ago i bought her a test, it came out negative, but the results coulden't be counted because she hasn't missed the her period yet since it hasn't come yet.
So right now i sit in limbo woundering, planning, thinking.
I'm only 17, but i'm not freaking out, im not running up and down halls yelling at the top of my lungs "ABORTION"
She said that she would keep it, and for some reason im ok with that.
I don't know i guess she just makes me feel different than all the other girls in my past, at the near tip of the hat of the sign of them being knocked up and i would be freaking.
But for some reason, i came to peace, i accecpted the idea.
Of course she might not be. But i guess i shoud plan for the worst or best.

But i just can't held getting the cold feet feeling as i might possibly falling into the biggest change of my life, something i will have to take care of for the rest of my life.
But i guess i'll just have wait and find out.
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#2 VuLkan

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 12:45 AM

Good luck buddy!
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#3 �HADOW109

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 01:27 AM

Best of luck to you whether you're hoping for no baby, miscarriage, abortion, orphanage or to be a father. Imo I hope nothing happened. Don't let your balls drop.
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#4 EVIL Shenanigans

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 02:29 AM

Don't let your balls drop.


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In all honesty, not worth freakin out till anything substantial is found out. If it is true, then by all means freak the f*ck out...you need to...cuz a 17 year old havin a kid while the father (you) actually plans to look after it will make you fail at life...by all means, it'll make a wonderful father outa you...but your life will be put on hold for the sake of the kid...*coughabortioncough*.
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#5 Frag0holic

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 04:23 AM

Hope everything works out for you, whatever outcome you're hoping for. At least you won't have to be a HS drop-out on account of this, right?.
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#6 Novahawk

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 09:47 AM

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#7 MainEvent

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 11:55 AM

Good luck, man. Lets hope it's a false alarm.
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#8 IWantWhiteCastle

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 11:59 AM

Good luck buddy!


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#9 ashbash

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 12:27 PM

punch her in the stomach
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#10 W@@DST@CK

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 01:56 PM

ROFL wow ashbash thats all i have to say about that
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#11 Komit

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 04:15 PM

Don't you have to wait like two months or something to prove if someones pregnant? I may be way off but I could of sworn I've heard that a few times before.
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#12 Inertia

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 08:02 PM

First thing, i have been going commando for years and have had the scare plenty o times, there are so many things that need to happen for her to get pregnant so I wouldn't worry too much. On the other hand, if she is knocked up, tell her its not yours and you want a paternity test, that way she will dump you and not make you pay for your little "boo boo"
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Posted 03 January 2009 - 09:33 PM

i hope you've learned to just nut on her face everytime from now on
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#14 Raccoon00

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 09:49 PM

Just a thought....How are her parents going to react if she is?

good luck on that....
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#15 Raccoon00

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Posted 03 January 2009 - 11:52 PM

Don't you have to wait like two months or something to prove if someones pregnant? I may be way off but I could of sworn I've heard that a few times before.


Two months???

you can know in like a week lol...
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#16 XxInColdBloodxX

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Posted 04 January 2009 - 12:45 AM

To awnser frags question, yes i would graduate from high school.

We planned out for my to go to college first and get everything settled there, and than i will send her through.


And about her parents.

This is how im going get ready for the situation (using MS paint)

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of course im only expecting them to hold her parents off for maybe... 5 or 6 seconds.


Edit:


For some of you, you think im freaking out or i don't want to keep it.
Let me clearify.
I do want to keep it.
Im not freaking out.
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#17 J.Pizzack

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Posted 04 January 2009 - 01:11 AM

Don't be a dummy...dump it on her tummy.

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#18 EVIL Shenanigans

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Posted 04 January 2009 - 05:56 AM

This is how im going get ready for the situation (using MS paint)

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By far, the best picture ever created!...
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#19 Unlikely

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Posted 06 January 2009 - 10:35 AM

I�ve been going commando for almost two years now. We�ve had the scare a few times, one time was really bad. Let me give you a few tips.

Pregnancy tests are, for the most part, very accurate. Have her take another.
Stress can delay her period... like 2 � 3 weeks sometimes. If she�s stressing, she could be late because of that.
If you know when her last menstruation was you can figure out if she was ovulating when you blew your beans in her muff. It�s highly unlikely she�ll get pregnant if she�s not ovulating, unless your sperm is like f*cking pierce brosnan or something.
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#20 Unlikely

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Posted 06 January 2009 - 10:46 AM

A kid will change a lot, of course who am I to advise you on the matters of life. All I�m saying is, a kid changes a lot, especially at your age. Problem is - a lot of women in the world can�t have kids. Once young women come to that realization and finally do have one, no matter what the situation, they want to hold onto it.

Plans will change and unless you�ve laid a solid foundation for your relationship (years of getting to know each other, figuring out what you want out of life, living together, etc) that relationship will suffer with a child. Raising a kid in that type of environment is not healthy, but who am I Dr. Phil or some sh*t?

All I�m saying is, from one bro to another, good luck.
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